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Kelly Corrigan:And I should not lose my mind over a shirt I bought on final sale section that didnt fit even though I tried to pull it over myself, and then it got stuck on me, and I had to cut it off with scissors. Take 2 - Father Greg Boyle on Character, Change and Kindness Dosing I mean, maybe I was projecting, maybe whatever he said in that moment, maybe if he had said peanut butter, and jelly, wed be talking about peanut butter and jelly, but it totally resonated for me in the way that a song lyric does where youre like, I dont know what that means exactly, but Im going to write that down, and put it in my wallet, and its interesting. Kelly Corrigan:Hey, thanks for having me. Kelly Corrigan:Thats not a headline anybody wants to read. If you love the episode, please share and review. Mom, we cant sell family, right? I looked at this sweet-natured adorable little puppy and acquiesced. Kate Bowler:Well, the quote that really resonated with me is when you said, They are moving onward, not away from you, but with you. Its like this now seems like a helpful way to process changethanks for offering that up . Kelly Corrigan Full Transcript - Kate Bowler Everything Happens with Kate Bowler Kelly Corrigan: Tell Me More 30 00:00:00 30 Read more about this episode, and get show notes, here. That kind of belonging is transcendent, and you just feel it pop up in these little moments. I went into this tiny bathroom in Baltimore in our office building, and just cried my eyes out, and it wasnt even because she died. I mean, I remember thinking, when I wasnt sure, when I was in an especially tough moment of illness, every time I would look at Zachs nails I would think, Is this what wouldve happened if I hadnt been here to do this? I mean so far, knock on wood, Im getting to see my kids be much, much older than she got to see her kids be. Kelly Corrigan:You dont always need such a plan, or an agenda, or whatever. Together, Kate and Kelly explore the phrases we cling to in order to find deeper connection and meaning during difficult times. She's an author. Please note that this episode references addiction and suicide. 5:55. Im so sorry youre not going to like any of my answers. You know, I honestly think I only say Im sorry, and not, I was wrong. I think I might try it. Constance shares her experiences as an actress in Hollywood both on and off screen: the privilege and responsibility of representation, being a true artist, navigating social media and an incident which took her to a very dark place.Special thanks to PBS for supporting Tell Me More and this podcast series. Kelly Corrigan Full Transcript - Kate Bowler You might actually give somebody a chance to discover whats really bothering them, and in that discovery they might find their own solution, but the fact is that if you can bite your stupid tongue, and get over yourself, and just keep eliciting their whole story, then the next thing you know, their mood is changing, and theyre feeling more solution-oriented, and then they get the buzz of solving the problem. I dont have the genetic predisposition. Its remarkable to hear a bit of your story and Im really grateful that youve shared it with us. I end up saying to my therapy clients, to my friends, and to my daughter both Change is hard and the stage-specific version of CIH, Middles are awful. Middles are awful: we have to either find language for an ambiguous state or give up on finding it: hard, sweaty work. Team Everything Happens. Dont worry, and she said, Well, my problem is I cant zip my dress by myself, so I thought if it was a woman, I could ask her to come in, and zip my dress, and I thought, Thats the tiny moments that are so gut-wrenching for a new widow. Thats the word. I guess everybody here, these children of mine and my husband, are just too damn busy to get on this, but Im not, so Ill do it, and then I was finishing, and I found a little pile of cut toenails on my kitchen table, and that. Its really wonderful to learn more about you and hear the ways youve connected with Kate and the book. Kelly Corrigan Wonders on Apple Podcasts For awhile, Id say shed been robbed, or ripped off. Kelly Corrigan:So, I say at the end of this chapter, Shouldnt loss change a person for the better? I was wrong, and that is very soothing, but then that took me back to this moment where I had gone to work for United Way after college, because I was going to save the world, and I was this total do-gooder. So, I was wondering, would you mind reading that beautiful passage you wrote about after Liz died? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Kelly Corrigan:So, she had to call someone and ask them to come over and zip her dress so she could go to the wedding. Such is a reminder that success is the result of joined efforts and that all of us are touched by the ripples of others contributions. It just ends the tension because what youre saying is, I see it how you see it, and I agree with you. At a time when so much feels unex Kate Bowler:Well, the one that we sort of settled on most was, Dont let the turkeys get you down, cause we were all deeply unpopular children, but it did make me think about mottos, and how it sort of defines the season that we live in. Kate Bowler:Yeah, I believe you. Kilpy This forgetting, this slide into smallness, this irritability in shame, this disorienting grief Its like this. Thats like total vanity but, especially with the kids, I definitely think, Edward and I both think, If you let us run this out for you, well get it done like one, two, three, and thats so humiliating, and degrading, and just the opposite of self-esteem building, which is sort of like the ground we walk on as adults. An Evening with Kelly Corrigan EVENT PAGE - Lightways You understand what you did wrong., Kelly Corrigan:So to me, that felt very different than saying, Im sorry. Okay, great. Kate Bowler:Today, I get a chance to talk to Kelly about some of her very best phrases. Shes not going to their wedding, shes not going to pick out wedding dresses with them. Youre going to slide around, you know, youre going to deserve your life a little more some days than others. Kate Bowler:Yeah, the indignity. Kelly Corrigan:Yeah. It offers so much grace to us all who are struggling to do better and be better. I think earn is such a good word, because youre talking about such a complicated math. Kelly Corrigan Wonders: Michael Murray on the Social Science of Faith It kind of reminded me though, when I was little, my family used to have these mottos, but the mottos were stuff like, Dont get crumbs on the baby, or Be nice to mom. Youre going to slide around, you know, youre going to deserve your life a little more some days than others. For the Love of Conversations: Jen and Kelly on Hard and Beautiful Change Then I wanted to get right with him, and urgently. Today, Im speaking with New York Times bestselling author, Kelly Corrigan. Im coming. PBS is a 501(c)(3) not-for-profit organization. He shares what draws him to people, how he writes them into stories and how openness and vulnerability are key elements to finding a strong character. Thats where relationship lives is in these tiny moments, and whether you are cognizant of that and tuned into that channel all the time, or not, that is the story of a relationship. Kelly Corrigan:So, my dad died in February, and then my friend Liz, whos the mother of three kids, 8, 10, and 12 at the time, died that December. I loved this episode! She had ovarian cancer, so she had fought it for seven years, and it was the kind of thing where I felt like I urgently wanted to deserve my life. Lives dont last. Kelly Corrigan:Ah, it was so terrible. Just do your best. Theyre poking for that critical difference to hold on to, and I wanna hug em, and say, I know. So, thats just the question in front of all of us. Maybe I dont have to be good, but I can try to be least a little better then Ive been so far., Riham:Our family motto is Allah Kareem. Im like, Yeah, right. Go get mixed up in something. Kelly Corrigan is a New York Times bestselling author whose first children's book, Hello World, is available now. And you know, it was so weird, but dying was the easier part of it. This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. Kelly Corrigan:Theyre never going to not do that, and thats how theyre going to raise their kids, and that means shes still here. Theyre poking for that critical difference to hold on to, and I wanna hug em, and say, I know. Labels like chronic illness, or caregiver, or widow, or mom of a kid with special needs. So much of what you both say resonates for me. After the potency of the crime metaphor wore off, I turned to the vocabulary of religion. I was wrong not to try to ease her days in some way.. Ill read you a little bit from the very end of that chapter because the thing that he was saying I think is, This is how it goes.. Series 47: For the Love of Untraditional Traditions Series 46: For the Love of Feeding Your People Series 45: For the Love of Dating, Sex, and Relationships Series 44: Letters from MeCamp 2022 Series 43: For the Love of Conversations Series 42: For the Love of Our Favorite Pastimes Series 41: For the Love of Faith Shakers You understand what you did wrong., Kelly Corrigan:So to me, that felt very different than saying, Im sorry. Im Kate Bowler, and this is Everything Happens. Yeah. Kate Bowler:Oh friend. As Teri said, He didnt have a drug problem, he had a life problem. So, I just really went bananas, because on top of the shirt problem, I went downstairs to clean the kitchen, and I found everybodys bowls, and spoons, and cups, and I had that reaction that so many women have, which is, Well I guess Im the least busy. Alex, Kelly Corrigan:The magic of Tell me more is you start telling me what youre upset about, and I fall for the first thing you say, and I start solving for that. I guess everybody here, these children of mine and my husband, are just too damn busy to get on this, but Im not, so Ill do it, and then I was finishing, and I found a little pile of cut toenails on my kitchen table, and that. Kelly has also agreed to be my friend as part of her contractual commitment to this podcast. Maybe Wills curious phrase, Its like this, applies here too. Kelly Corrigan:I sat at my dining room table, which is place I never write, and I thought, Oh my God, of course I know exactly what this is.

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